Finally! The continuation to Well Designed Success 2 of 3

Is Your Life a Well Designed Success 2 of 3

TWO PARTS IN THIS EMAIL

One is the invite to my first webinar series of the year.

After that, is the continuation of “Is Your Life a Well Designed Success 2 of 3”

ENJOY…

Our shoe cabinet is custom made for our small condo unit. Many days since its construction years ago, I would find tiny screws on the floor in front of the shoe cabinet.

Of course, I would look around to find out where the screw fell from.

Wala! I can’t find the source.

So I threw it away.

Another day passes, another screw on the floor.

No sign where it came from.

Threw it away again.

One day, as I opened the shoe cabinet – the door felt loose. I checked and found that only one screw was holding it up.

The whole door was being held by one screw!

All the others were gone.

Ok, I exaggerate.

What I found was that every hinge only had one screw that prevented it from dropping to the floor.

But the door worked every day…but it was a disaster waiting to happen.

My 1-year-old toddler could be getting her shoes (She does this daily) when it happens.

All because I didn’t check the screws CAREFULLY in the first place.

TODAY IT HAPPENED AGAIN

We have a cabinet that contained an old computer monitor.

That’s where I put my big Star Wars books.

This massive- mirrored cabinet door only has 2 hinges.

My son opened it and it swung too wide -because now only one hinge was attached to the wall.

My son is 9 years old – couldn’t have forced the screws out – but – the screws were completely removed from the cabinet.

I could see the whole screw – outside of the cabinet walls.

So I fixed it.

But while I was fixing, I realized that – I needed to check the other screws of its partner door. This cabinet has two doors right?

Sure enough, one screw of the other door was just about to check out.

I tightened it.

There, done!

But these two doors is part of a massive wall length cabinet with multiple doors so…

Lots more to check!

IMAGINE A SIMPLE THING LIKE CHECKING THE CABINET SCREWS …

Checking the screws can help save your family from needless accidents!

Wow!

One thing they should teach you in school but they don’t.

And one thing your parents and mentors should teach you but they don’t!

BUT LET’S SEE – HOW ABOUT YOUR LIFE?

What screws need to be tightened?

Is your exercise habit -still a plan?

Is your diet plan –still an intention?

Is your sugar level monitoring – still dated 4 months ago and never updated ? Never monitored?

Is your prayer habit with the kids/loved ones – still irregular or “Sunday only?”

Is you “time with kids/wife/husband” still a promise that’s not fulfilled?

What sort of things are you ignoring EVEN TODAY, a NEW YEAR?

LET’S FIND OUT STARTING TONIGHT

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You’ll discover the solution what you should do to make tiny dents into these Major Areas.

You’ll find out how to start THINKING FAR IN YOUR LIFE so not only you can benefit but your children and your children’s children will grow up saying “THANK YOU” for what you did TODAY.

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SUCCESS PRAYER

“Lord, Please make this project of mine successful. How it’s done, Lord it’s up to you.”

Ever hear that prayer from yourself sometimes?

It’s an incomplete prayer.

It’s not asking enough.

“You do not have because you don’t ask.” James 4:3

But Lord! I did ask! I asked for Success!

But God wants us to be more specific.

YOU HAVE THE IMAGINATION

Ever wonder why he gifted us – only humans – the power of limitless imagination?

Did you think that was only for Steven Spielberg?

We all have it.

But what is it for?

JOMAR. I DON’T HAVE AN IMAGINATION

Here’s a story:

“3 year old was sat onfront of the tv watching cartoons. I went up to put some laundry away and when I came back down he had no pants or trousers on. There was a little puddle of urine on the floor behind him and his underwear and trousers were on the floor on front of the washing machine.

“I asked him who had urinated on the floor. He replied ‘it was daddy’.

“When I said that daddy was at work, he told me that daddy had ‘came home, wee’d on the floor and then left again’.

“‘In the few minutes that I’ve been upstairs?’

“*shaking his head and rolling his eyes in disapproval.

“‘yes’.”

HOW ABOUT ADULT IMAGINATION? HERE’S FROM A CAREERBUILDER SURVEY OF THE MOST RIDICULOUS EXCUSES NOT TO COME TO WORK:

  • I thought of quitting today, but then decided not to, so I came in late.
  • My hair caught on fire from my blow dryer.
  • My lizard had to have emergency surgery in the morning and died during surgery. I had to mourn while deciding whether to have the lizard disposed of by the vet or bring the lizard corpse with me to work.
  • There was fresh powder on the hill. I had to go skiing.
  • There was a store grand opening and I wanted to get the opening day sales.
  • I had to finish watching “My Name is Earl.”
  • All of my clothes were stolen.
  • I was confused by the time change and unsure if it was “spring forward” or “fall back.”
  • A Vaseline truck overturned on the highway and cars were slipping left and right.
  • My grandmother poisoned me with ham.

PURE IMAGINATION, RIGHT?

VISION BOARDS?

Oh, Jomar I know what you mean – I already have vision boards, dream boards and dream books.

That’s not what I mean.

A well-designed success is first a clear vision, followed by tiny day to day modifications in your life.

Tiny.

Very Tiny.

Done daily.

Takes a few seconds to a few minutes.

Would you like to know what these are?

I can’t tell you yet.

They’re so simple, you’ll just ignore them.

An email is not the right place to discover these.

And that’s not a dream board or dream book.

It’s not an affirmation.

What is it?

It’s the result of a well-designed success.

EXAMPLES OF WELL DESIGNED SUCCESSES ARE…

You’ve actually seen them.

No, not Oprah.

Because – really have you seen her vision statement this year?

How about when she began?

Did you even know if she wrote a Vision Story?

No?

Because personal vision statements are not public.

Nobody prints them out.

Not really.

Not in detail.

And nobody blogs…

 

MOST COMMON VISION STATEMENTS ARE…

The best and most common vision statements you know are made by BIG companies.

Remember – mission and vision?

You probably didn’t think much about it yes?

But someone -probably the founder – made that.

It meant a lot to them.

But only to them.

And maybe not to the average employee.

 

But to the owners – that vision statement – is what made the company what it is today.

BUT IT’S NOT JUST A VISION STATEMENT

So, Jomar – we’re making a vision statement?

No.

We’re making a VISION.

A VISION is an actual STORY.

I’ll explain in the Well Designed Success course but bottom line you’ll need a LOT of pages to create this.

I’ve taught this to entrepreneurs 3 years ago and it’s been very very fruitful.

Great and Impossible things happened.

However, these too are personal and private visions – w/c means – I can’t tell you much about them.

Except they are so powerful in creating your future.

And just like other concepts I took from the corporate world, if it works for companies – it can work for you.

After all, a company is made of PEOPLE.

People who write visions.

SO HOW WILL YOU KNOW THIS WORKS?

I’ve been trained by at least two vision writing mentors – I think the best in the world. I just don’t talk about it much. You’ll find out in the course.

I’ve done this several times. Using different methods.

I’ve even been trained by a screenwriter. (For storytelling the future!)

I’ve also been doing 7day personal retreats like the WELL DESIGNED SUCCESS RETREATS for a few years now – so I know how it works.

 

HOW POOR WERE YOU?

“I grew up from a poor family..I studied in La Salle Greenhills.”

I can’t forget this statement given by someone I know.

I also envy him. His poor family lives near Greenhills and can afford the tuition there.

Me on the other hand, have to ask people for my tuition fee so I can go attend my last semester in College in UPLB. I was only looking for P 4,000 at that time.

High school -I only had one pair of shoes which I sewed shut every time it broke open.

Why are the SO DIFFERENT?

Care to tell me why?

 

IF YOU PREPARE TO THINK FAR TODAY, YOUR KIDS WILL THANK YOU IN THE FUTURE

Right now FAR FUTURE may not matter to you.

But it does happen eventually.

Question is – would you LIKE what you experience?

Would you LOVE what you WILL see?

Because YOU CAN DESIGN IT, you know.

 

HOW WILL IT WORK FOR ME?

Your well-designed success – is totally based on you.

If you’re introverted, you make it so. You design your best introvert success.

If you’re D or dominant, you make more leadership stories in your vision.

If you’re I or interactive, you create a vision of you having so many friends and contacts and happiness.

If you’re poor (so you say) and wanting to be wealthy – w/o ever worrying about money ever again – create a vision of what a day, a week or a month or year of that looks like.

 

BUT I DON’T KNOW HOW TO MAKE A VISION!

Yes, there are two problems here.

#1. You don’t know how to tell stories on paper – you only know how to make kwento, as if there’s a difference, eh?

(You do? Great!)

#2. You have zero idea what vision to write.

That’s why I made the WELL DESIGNED SUCCESS ONLINE COURSE!

Let’s continue this tomorrow …

REPLY WITH YOUR THOUGHTS PLEASE.

 

Now live a marvelous life,

Jomar Hilario

 

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